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In need of healing at so many levels…

Latest local Silicon Valley news – told to me by a lovely mom who came to my yoga class last night (her first yoga class ever – SO proud of her! Thank you as I know for many moms, Sunday evenings are hard to leave home that time – sacrificing Family Sunday dinner- thank you again for coming). She tells me after our class that there was a suicide at Gunn High School last week – I have no details but know that Gunn High School is in a relatively affluent community proving that all communities need Sonima Foundation.

Here’s a heart-wrenching plea from one of the students. Parents and teachers – maybe cultivating some empathy would aide in the healing of what’s broken. Give 16-year olds space. Let them be normal high school students enjoying what it means to be “Sweet” 16. And I don’t think I am naive to think that a program from Sonima Foundation would have helped had these vulnerable, sensitive students had a well designed and delivered Health & Wellness education before the 3-7 AP classes they are driven to take and the accompanying sleep deprivation. Which is more important? Straight A’s OR Happy, Healthy and Caring young people who will be our future? Do we want honest, creative, out-of-the box thinking, kind and compassionate people to shape our future or do we want dreadfully competitive, high-achieving, always seeking recognition and dominance, exclusive minded, highly driven “robots” attempting to problem solve and create a better, more peaceful future ?

We don’t know the background enough to blame the high-pressure, high-achievement oriented culture of some schools. Perhaps it was something else BUT if it is the case as this student in the video says, due to the culture of “pressure-cooker” academics spawn by the parental demands – to which she bravely says “CALM DOWN”! I wondered what fuels the parents to demand so much out of their child ? Of course parents want the best for their child – is that what fuels them to set high expectations?

It’s fear. The anxieties – and the kids like osmosis feel it under their skin. They don’t feel all the beautiful things under their skin – they just feel the fear, the anxiety, the stress. As well meaning with all good intentions, fear can “motivate” but …it can also be so toxic. If we change that “fear” that enslaves them to achieve at any cost, to something positive, like “faith” “acceptance” and “love” for life and people – to what’s really important, then the child is going to come out all right. Maybe it’s the parents who need the Health & Wellness program as much as their kids, so that they can give their kids the gift of space and fresh air to grow and develop at their own pace, self-regulation and self-acceptance that relies little from external validation (such as grades, popularity, praises…). I really like the values taught at the local elementary school – to do the right thing even when no-one is looking. To do good even if there’s no recognition. Hope that carries all the way to adulthood.

Here I re-post this as I feel it in my heart:

An Empath found in Rumi…

rosethorns

I will soothe you and heal you.
I will bring you roses.
I too have been covered with thorns.

– Rumi

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Sonima Foundation making a difference in K-12 students’ lives…

Gratitude to those who make a difference as I immersed myself in the harmony of positive energy…

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Found out about this “awesome” organization called Sonima Foundation from a fellow yogini I respect. In fact, it was she who got me certified in Kids & Family Yoga Teaching some years ago in which that training/certification allowed me to sub when needed and then co-teach at local elementary school’s Wellness Day. (held just once a year festival format – shouldn’t wellness day be everyday for them?) She’s the one who planted the seed as any caring educator would, for her students:) She is indeed that teacher – caring and, above all, most dedicated and committed. Like a gardener, she’s a teacher who plants the seeds, tills the fertile grounds called the young minds and nourishes them for the sprouting intellect that grows into great thoughts and ideas! School children would be lucky to have her as their Health & Wellness teacher – that would be just so “awesome” for them !

If Sonima Foundation’s program was implemented in every school, what a difference it would make. The world would be a much better place … When there are fewer angry people, fewer irritated and exhausted people, fewer fearful anxious people, the world will be a more peaceful place of creativity accompanied by laughter and joy. Students would be well-adjusted, well-rounded and most importantly, ready and eager to learn! Earlier we know how to self-regulate; to know the safety and love found within, the more empowering. And their mission is to empower the kids by giving them the tools, and then, teaching them the skills to navigate their emotions and many other variables which they once thought is beyond their control, they now master. With such mastery comes confidence as they come to realize the control, power and … the freedom to use their mind and body to take them to places they so desire. They realize wherever they direct their energies to… they can affect a change that enables them to undergo a transformation.

It takes dedicated, committed teachers … so enthralled to realize there are many like minded who see “service” as their calling. The positive energy of teachers who know this key promise… that kids are our future … was just amazing. When you are in company of passionate people who wants to make a positive change … you can’t help but to feel this sense of gratitude and relief. People are good. People are giving. People aspire to be better. Humankind are … kind.

It’s not some unrealistic fervor but with eyes wide open – thoroughly and deeply thought out and designed undertaking – knowing that the teacher, no matter how well meaning and competent, may not reach all students – but if even 20%, 10% or even just 5% are reached, incrementally over time, it’s huge. Until the larger social-economic issues are addressed, yoga in the classroom alone, of course is not the answer to hard issues faced in the inter-cities or other challenged communities – but it is a component in the formula for the bigger all encompassing solution. Yoga is such a healing art that empowers the individuals who practice it, I am going to pin my hope on the goodness of any and all genuine efforts to make a difference.

Yoga in the classroom is about harnessing the energy, to put into place practical ways to help younger people succeed. It stands to reason efforts of this magnitude is sure to make a notable difference in kids’ lives. To me, the value seems much greater than if we were to just give unprepared students more electronic gadgets. When I read news about big corporations donating laptops for kids who can’t even read or write or do basic math, or able to sit still and manage and accept the full range of emotions and engage with other human beings – the thought is – that’s a nice donation that money can buy – thanks but are laptops the answer to real problems they face?

Yoga as part of their overall Health & Wellness program in the classroom ? Yoga in the classroom on the other hand … is not a hardware but … it’s a software – it’s a program designed by someone caring; someone trying to make a difference – from the get-go, Love sets the tone. The intention of this group is clear. It is good. It is real. It is borne out of love and passion to make a difference. Many people have good intentions, but you have to respect these candidates who not only have good intentions but go beyond – to take action. To step off the mat and really take action … I hold these people in the highest regard.

PE & classroom teachers are the everyday unsung heros; everyday warriors fighting to advocate for our children’s future. I was humbled to be in presence of so many well meaning yogis and health advocates, intensely studying this craft …to serve. The week-long Kids Yoga training provided by Sonima Foundation is so thorough, so hands-on and practical – it’s not just theories and classroom studies – it’s a true transmission of techniques and how-to’s from those who have actually worked in the trenches. And when we play students to those awesome teachers who have taught so many kids in the classrooms through this program, we get to really feel what it’s like to be the receiving end of these lessons – as we all know, the best learning and teaching is through direct experience. In true learning, books and workbooks can only go so much – the rest is through the real experience using all 5-senses. In true immersion training in which we can navigate our own feelings about learning and teaching whilst building confidence. I’ve always loved teaching kids but you really have to be on your toes – never a dull moment – in fact, never a moment – it has to keep moving … never a dull moment in the movement portion … you can’t help but to smile and laugh with them – they brighten the room with sheer ENERGY ! AND then, loved the “rest” time – Kelley’s guided visualization was sooo beautiful – put a smile on everyone’s face.

Teaching kids is not easy because their instincts are quite sharp and intuitions are highly sensitized and clear – after all, their nervous system is NEW and in process of development – they know how to read the air and quickly sense the energy around them because they are so pure and young. SO you have to be genuine – You can’t pretend to love them – you either do or you don’t. You have to be earnest and do your best each time if that’s what you are expecting out of them. I have done many yoga training but this one week training given by the Somina Foundation was one of the most professional, practical (makes you feel like you can just walk into a classroom full of rambunctious 2nd graders and just deliver – just teach) and … truly impressive because of the passion this team of professionals from the Foundation had.

In gratitude. So charged – hope that the local school district would consider a life altering program like this. Kumon and homework clubs are nice but having witnessed many tiger moms, I have come to learn that physical, mental and emotional health and wellness is the most important and lays the groundwork. True academic success will follow only when the foundation of health is laid out and solid. Health & Wellness is not about excelling in sports and being competitive. Wellness is about being well-rounded and well-balanced – To be healthy in body and mind – to be able to love yourself and others. Wellness is about loving life, appreciating family, friends and teachers, and being eager and ready to learn, at all times knowing the meaning of the word, “gratitude”. If a child is raised that way, the parents and schools are doing a “awesome” job.

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An Empath at your service …

rosethorns

I will soothe you and heal you.
I will bring you roses.
I too have been covered with thorns.

– Rumi