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Boys’ Voices

Boys’ voices undergo a change from about age 13 – it’s does not occur overnight but over time during puberty- in other words, it’s a process that coincides with becoming a teenager (gasp).  Their singing voice may all the sudden dry up, there will be fits and starts… their voice may crack…fade as it progressively becomes… lower… like … men’s.  If you do not sing, it’s subtle or gradual but if you sing… you are quite aware of the change that is inevitable. You may dread it; you may welcome it.

We don’t think about this but children’s voices, especially boys’ voices change so much, adults around them sometimes really miss that voice which represented that boy and his childhood… that of innocence, limitless exuberance… their voices were like angel’s.  It is a form of “loss” as we realize how we were attached to that angelic voice and took it for granted.  That voice is lost and it never comes back. It sounds dramatic but (nothing is dramatic in teen’s life) there’s a small “death” and then… “rebirth”.  When they start losing that “voice” that hits those angelic high notes, the boys themselves FEEL the loss of that ability to hit those high notes and feels the diminished “range” … and realize they cannot audition for those solo parts that used to come so easily…  Being boys, they may not be able to express how that feels.  They may turn on the “Falsetto” whenever those now unattainable notes are demanded of them.  Then their voices transform themselves into one of  Bass, Baritone or Tenor…Until their new voices develop, there’s an adjustment period that may be awkward or stressful or neither…  Some may even quit the choir, some may not care or be unaware (how’s that possible?); but with proper guidance, they go on to develop deeper, beautiful voices of men.

When it comes to boys’ choir, on an international level, Vienna Boys Choir (wonder if those angels are “retired” at age 13) comes to mind but in San Francisco Bay Area, there are many choirs in which Ragazzi Boys Choir, in particular stands out. Their UTube footages are minimal and not done with commercial purpose in mind so… not the best recorded sound quality (if only they had Libera’s sound/visual’s pros – and nothing like a Anglican cathedral acoustics!) so better catch them live or with their CDs… And speaking of boys choirs on UTube, here’s a group closest to Ragazzi I think…

http://youtu.be/5NYTnuAfFp8

Close your eyes and listen.  The value of this singing is made even greater when you realize that none of these boys on this video is probably able to sing like this anymore as their voices surely changed.  That’s the impermanent nature of life we talk about in Buddhist teachings.  Nothing is permanent and we all experience “loss” in our lives.  Loss of “that” voice, Loss of youth, loss of innocence, loss of health, loss of life – then we gain, gain wisdom, gain knowledge, gain perspectives, gain depth and …connections – there’s ageless timeless renewal and rebirth… That’s why we have to treasure the present and live in the present.  As well said, “In the Moment”. Today, here and now is so precious…Blink an eye and boys have transformed, from boys to men.  Poof, it’s like magic. Be Present.

 

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9-11

On this anniversary, thousands of people, more eloquent than I, will report and write about that day.  I was lucky not to personally know anyone who died on 9/11 and can provide no words of wisdom, understanding or comfort to those who unimaginably suffered the loss of their husband, wife, child, sister, brother, mother or father.  But that does not mean those of us not personally affected remain untouched.  As Americans, each of us was affected, if not forever changed, that day.  (quoted by Bernard Goldberg).

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Feelings of fear makes you want to just skip over this day…So in an effort to counter dark fears to somehow find light and inspirations, Dalai Lama’s words shared on this day of remembrance:

To the question posed, “why didn’t you fight back (the Chinese government)?”, he answered,

“…war is obsolete, you know. Of course the mind can rationalize fighting back … but the heart, the heart would never understand. Then you would be divided in yourself, the heart and the mind, and the war would be inside you.”

We pray for the victims who are no longer in this world. RIP.  We pray for their families who must be waging a war within at all times. May they find solace and peace.

 

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Did she really say this?

yokoandandyTake one of the yoga positions and
see the painting that you like for
two days.
Your position can be at any distance
or direction from the painting.
Destroy the painting after the two
days.
You may do it with a photograph, a
mirror, or a person instead of a
painting.
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Yes, she did.
Quoted by Yoko Ono, “POSITION PIECE” (1963 summer).

Yoko is SO weird and it’s not a culture gap. Japanese think she’s weird too. Very weird. Eccentric, Over the top… It is doubtful that anyone really likes her or understands her at her home country either. She holds a very humanistic view but herself, viewed as part alien in seemingly all societies. Maybe that’s the charm. A very handsome woman in her youthful days and if she were only a man, then she would have been more accepted as some cool hip artist (still weird) with striking dark piercing looks. She’s no more an artist than Andy Warhol is questioned as a “real” artist. She actually can sing in tune and she actually can sing beautifully but chose to screech into the microphone to a point you want to wring her neck or plug your ears in utter disgust. She’s always making us feel mostly uncomfortable – but John Lennon understood her “genius” and loved her…

She does not care – and that’s her beauty. That she does not care what people think of her. No YELP rating is going to deter her from expressing herself. Even if I am full of judgments, one of which is – Emperor(well, Empress, in this case) has no clothes…she is not the least bit concerned. She doesn’t care about the detractors and the critics and the haters. Now, that’s freedom for real in action.

She’s 80, yes, EIGHTY (and a half) now. Must be the YOGA.
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