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* Another great book … by Judith Hanson Lasater, PT & PhD, one of the first generation of yoga teachers in America, learning directly from B.K.S. Iyengar.

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Mentioned in the last post about attaining desires not assuring happiness – to that affect, apparently there’s a reference by St Teresa of Avila about the unhappiness caused by wishes being granted… as in this proverb my former co-worker often used –  “Be careful what you wish for”…

I might have mentioned something about my take on prayers vs. mantras… No one taught me that but I feel it so in my heart. Hope I did not offend anyone into religion. It’s all good.

“We would often be sorry if our wishes were gratified”

– Aesop (c. 550 BC)

“When the gods wish to punish us they answer our prayers”

– Oscar Wilde in An Ideal Husband (1895)

“Granting our wish one of fate’s saddest jokes is.”

– James Russell Lowell

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Jean and Brenna taught me “Maha Mrityunjaya” mantra and to quote them –  “The vibration of the Mantra empowers us to overcome all obstacles while empowering the healer- within.”  Thank you for your teachings Jean and Brenna:)  Over time, 108 times recited and it’s sinking in:)  Things take a little more time for me as with all fermented nourishment…(does wine count as fermented nutrient ?)   Flow-yin (not throw-in:)  practice whenever possible, daily restorative/meditation… what a healing and energizing balance. This formula works for me; but we are all different; your formula may be completely different and that’s what you find out during your restorative practice through reflection; introspection and meditation – what equation works and what doesn’t – what we should keep trying and strive for; what we should simply drop when it does not serve us. To know that distinction.  Taking a little time-out for self-care… we all deserve it.

 

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IMG_5953Right before my Sunday evening yoga class my mother from Tokyo called – apparently there was an earthquake there – the jolt was quite intense and lasting, waking her up.@ Magnitude-6. Epicenter 100 kilometers (60 miles) south of Tokyo…my hometown. It was the strongest felt in the Japanese capital since March 2011, when a magnitude-9 earthquake hit the country’s northeast. That record temblor left more than 18,500 people dead or missing and crippled Fukushima Dai-Ichi nuclear power plant.

Did she call in fear and panic?  No, she was cool as a cucumber…laughing how it woke her up and ruined her breakfast plans as the elevator did not work in her building… then when I asked if she’s still doing the yoga pranayama I taught her on my last visit, she replied, yes, yes. hai, hai – then, off to breakfast she went now that the elevator was working – she’s on the 18th floor… I worry about her a lot (and yes, I worried about the after shocks and her in the elevator… ) as probably most children do of their aging parents.

Yet, I know worrying do nothing to help her and is most harmful to me – Yoga has really helped me tame my busy mind.  Outside world is not under control and sometimes as my mentor yoga teacher used to say, “sometimes s–t happens” that’s totally beyond your control.  It’s not some naive self-help book written by someone who has not yet lived an authentic full life singing “positive thinking” as a road to happiness – Attaining your desires* does not assure happiness nor determine your destiny. That’s an illusion.  With the best of intentions and hard work and superhuman focus, sometimes, still things do not work out – or shall I say, it worked out BUT not the way you wanted.

Sure, planning, scheduling, prioritizing and organizing certainly help – and yet… When things seem out of control to you; you are indeed, right – yes, it is.  External world is beyond your control.  It’s the internal world that’s within your control – so with that knowledge, you can relax now. You have the power and control over your inner-world;  you have all the choices on how to react to the external forces by being a force to reckon with yourself.

Speaking of self-help books, I am reading this popular book from Japan, translated would be entitled something like, “How to live in optimal health to age 100 with vitality; then depart just like That !” (snap your fingers at the end:)

I know, I know – what a book to be reading… BUT it’s very informative.  I will share my findings in my teachings.

BTW, tried 23&Me – interesting… We are brothers and sisters after all…and if we go back far enough, we are all related.

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Tension Release Exercises (TRE)

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Thanks to a beautiful soul of a friend, checked out TRE taught by Nkem Ndefo, certified TRE trainer from LA. Having had another yoga friend talk about a yoga instructor who incorporates this technique into her yoga teaching, I found this workshop to be very interesting. I have a tendency to compare all forms of exercise to yoga and so here I was analyzing each exercise vis-a-vis yoga… yet again – prisoner of my own habits lol…

All the exercise presented,  were in my mind, essentially series of extracted yogic poses; and the breathing technique was, to me,  very familiar as one of many pranayama techniques available in yoga traditions.  I am always amazed by the wisdom passed down from our fore-bearers…here presented as modern medicine breakthrough. For those needing modern medicine evidence based theory to be convinced, this is developed by a doctor with yes, MD behind his name – so … there’s that validation if not for your own experience in this experiment.

I can see how TRE appeals to many for it’s very Western presentation.  The very practically minded is easily sold on the idea as this method gets the job done fast for PTDS and to lesser degree any level of stress/tension.

1.  again, it’s practical and efficient;

2. appears to be an Effective fix;

3.  Easy and simple;  anyone can do it.

4.  Medical not spiritual; not Eastern and foreign or exotic.

5.  No stories nor tales; just gets the job done without the personal narrative or profound transformation – none required.

There’s no poetry, mystery/mysticism or alchemy … no emotions nor artistry… Rather, just like going to the hospital for a procedure, as a medical self-care exercise, it appears to be effective do at home or any place (BR at workplace was mentioned) technique.  To me, if there’s relief to the suffering, it’s all good. That’s what matters – to put an end to suffering and misery of any kind. Brings back the joy in life.

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Releasing the jaw?  Yes, that’s Lion’s pose:)  None of the emotional, mindful or spiritual stuff or the abstracts to distract you if you want just very no-non-sense way of releasing tension.  We are lucky but some just can’t afford the more gradual healing process… Very straight forward, efficient, simple and accessible.  While the verdict is still out, most important to many, you get the relief you need in a jiffy like a car getting a tuneup.  It’s all about the body and our nervous system… Very Western and perfect for someone looking for a relatively simple and efficient self-care method. Nkem is knowledgeable and a lovely teacher – her background as a RN and Midwife gives her the great range of experience to bring this technique to so many people in need. I was thrilled to get to experience the tremors that I had been so curious about … human body is truly something to marvel at!  To some who have been repressing so much tension and holds that’s gotten into tight knots, the release is uncontrollable – and because of it, some break into giggles and laughs… and let me tell you, nothing is more of a release than laughter:)  Anything pent up will release with laughter… so that’s why I try to find comedy in any situation.

Personally, I cannot do TRE alone for there’s so much joy to be had from yoga practice  – I just love wisdom that’s been passed down from the ancient times and I love the beauty of it…and I am especially in love with its poetry ( just the naming of the poses is a poetry in motion –  “from child’s pose into a puppy pose then into down dog, up dog, Chaturanga Dandasana into cobra… I mean it’s like a fun game – a rhythm of incarnations – okay, I admit sometimes it’s not quite poetic when I lack strength and fall in my face 🙁 To me, incorporated into a yoga practice, TRE would be the perfect prescription for addressing stubborn tension and stress in our bodies while allowing our mind to come to that still-point through yoga’s meditative practice.  With a little artistry and creativity, TRE’s “science” based method, interwoven into the “art” and “spiritual” aspect of yoga.. that would be the melding of the best of two worlds.  Kind of like carefully folding the foamy meringue (another technique)  into creamy nectar-like batter base (yoga:)  to make the best “angel” cake! “Bundt” to feel so light:)

I respect any form of healing modalities that give people relief – to cite some examples: Reiki; Accupuncture; Hypnotherapy; Harmonic Resonance Therapy; Accupressure; Hoʻoponopono; Somatic; Ayurvedic medicine … & the list goes on  …We have so many tools available to us but yoga… to me is all encompassing and powerful especially combined with any of the alternatives (& did you notice?  Thanks to Mari-sensei, Aromatherapy is my love:)

We can liberate ourselves from the struggles and suffering – in body, mind and spirit.  I embrace all those in the healing profession.  Thank you for a very educational workshop Nkem!  Highly recommended:)

Should you be in LA and interested in TRE from a qualified teacher, contact

Nkem Ndefo, RN, CNM

Level 2 TRE Practioner

nkem@trelosangles.com