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Pratyahara …

8 Limbs of Yoga defines “Yoga” in the Yoga Sutra of Patanjeli. As we delve into studying yoga more deeply, we are taught that there are 7 other elements to yoga besides the element of asana (postures) we are so familiar with. In fact, I recall the earlier days when my practice was mainly physical (so out of character maybe, sweating it out at Bikram studio). When I signed up for the first yoga teacher training, I went in thinking I had to memorize the names both English and Sanskrit of all yoga poses; then I thought I had to know them all anatomically and string them together while being able to teach how to get into and out of each pose. That’s what I thought it was all about. I had no idea, the physical exercise part was just one eighth of what yoga was all about. After obsessing the physical aspects, I realize now why I found restorative yoga so enticing for me, personally. I highly recommend this practice for someone who-over thinks, very mental, perhaps cerebral but unnecessarily hyper analytical and critical, tends to be artistic and creative (I did not say neurotic did I?), maybe even a bit Type A personality, living with chronic stress, hypertension, anxieties/depression, weight, energy or pain management issues. Or perhaps none of the above and just plain, want to prepare a better state of clarity to have a fruitful profound meditation practice. Here is an excerpt from my teacher, Judith H. Lasater’s homepage:

In the Yoga Sutras of Patanjali, the second chapter is filled with teachings about the astanga or eight-limbed yoga system. The astanga system is presented as a series of practices which begin with external limbs like ethical precepts and move toward more internal limbs like meditation. The fifth step or limb is called pratyahara and is defined as the conscious withdrawal of energy from the senses. Almost without exception yoga students are puzzled by this limb. We seem to inherently understand the basic ethical teachings like satya which is the practice of truthfulness, for example, or pranayama, the use of breath to effect the mind, or the practice of conscious posture or asana. But for most of us the practice of pratyahara remains elusive.

One way to begin to understand pratyahara on a experiential level is to focus on a familiar yoga pose, savasana, the corpse pose. This pose is done lying supine on the floor and is the practice of deeply relaxing. The first stage of this asana is about physiological relaxation. In this stage, as one becomes comfortable lying on the floor, there is first an awareness of the muscles gradually relaxing, then the breathing slowing and finally the body generally letting go of tension. While delicious, this stage is only the beginning of the practice.

The next stage of savasana is different because it pertains to the mental sheath or level. In the second stage of savasana there is a sense that one is withdrawing from the external world without loosing contact with it. This is an experience of pratyahara. Most of us know this state; when one is in this state it feels like one is at the bottom of a well; the sounds that occur both in and out of the room where one is lying are registered, for example, but these sounds do not create disturbance in the body or mind. It is this state of non-reaction that I am calling pratyahara. The actual registering of input by the nervous system still occurs but there is virtually no interaction with that input. There seems to be a space between stimulus and response. In common parlance, one is in the world but not of it.

Hahhhh, it’s heavenly …

Is it no wonder? Hyper-alert, revved up, for some people, practice of pratyahara is quite challenging; there’s that fear in letting go. Withdrawal of the senses elicits fear and dread for some – then, my suggesting is to just not feel you must go so far. Wherever you get to is ENOUGH. Here’s a story – When I first went to Grand Canyon, I was awe-struck just seeing the panoramic view from atop at the Rim …it was a breath taking paradise in the grand scale; a rush, dizzying feeling like you are getting sucked into the earth’s center. I really felt the subtle centripetal force. That was enough. Then years later, there was a calling (okay, a call from a friend …) to trek to the very bottom of the Canyon; to Phantom Ranch. The hike was grueling but once reached, there too was a magical mirage-like oasis – scorching dessert heat dissipated at the bottom with Colorado River nearby – it’s lush and cool while the route to get there was dry hot dessert… Here, another paradise I was sucked into … both paradises, but incomparable – the air, the view, the lighting, the temperature …the energy of the place – different from the first experience – a shift in perspective. But the first experience of paradise is no less superior to the latter; just different. So know, it’s both good; it’s all good. All I can do is provide the space of safety, security and support. The journey you take after all is all yours.
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camp-lanyards

The Lanyard
The other day I was ricocheting slowly
off the blue walls of this room,
moving as if underwater from typewriter to piano,
from bookshelf to an envelope lying on the floor,
when I found myself in the L section of the dictionary
where my eyes fell upon the word lanyard.

No cookie nibbled by a French novelist
could send one into the past more suddenly-
a past where I sat at a workbench at a camp
by a deep Adirondack lake
learning how to braid long thin plastic strips
into a lanyard, a gift for my mother.

I had never seen anyone use a lanyard
or wear one, if that’s what you did with them,
but that did not keep me from crossing
strand over strand again and again
until I had made a boxy
red and white lanyard for my mother.

She gave me life and milk from her breasts,
and I gave her a lanyard.
She nursed me in many a sick room,
lifted spoons of medicine to my lips,
laid cold face-clothes on my forehead,
and then led me out into the air light

and taught me to walk and swim,
and I, in turn, presented her with a lanyard.
Here are thousands of meals, she said,
and here is clothing and a good education.
And here is your lanyard, I replied,
which I made with a little help from a counselor.

Here is a breathing body and a beating heart,
strong legs, bones and teeth,
and two clear eyes to read the world, she whispered,
and here, I said, is the lanyard I made at camp.
And here, I wish to say to her now,
is a smaller gift – not the worn truth

that you can never repay your mother,
but the rueful admission that when she took
the two-toned lanyard from my hand,
I was as sure as a boy could be
that this useless, worthless thing I wove
out of boredom would be enough to make us even.

– BIlly Collins

It’s never even and that’s okay. Happy Mother’s Day !

Whether you yourself is a mother or not, regardless – it’s a celebration for all as we all HAVE or HAD a mother even if you yourself may not be one. It’s about gratitude for this life we were given; for the nurturing we were given biological or not. One who nurtures … the nurturers are all super moms. Thank you mom, mama, mother …

& for the moms …

More than material things, more than a lanyard, probably what most moms would benefit from a couple of hours devoted to self-care, a space in which to unplug and be pampered …so that she can go back to learning and growing with the family. To me, that would be a very gentle but flowy, juicy “effective” yoga class or a nature hike followed by a “real” restorative yoga – any blend of yoga that restores our balance and sense of vitality. In other words, “Relax & Renew” …regenerated, moms (or dads) can go back to that place of strength and endurance, which enables them to be more patient, more caring and loving … This applies to all – We want Giving to be joyful not draining or done grudgingly as though it’s such a sacrifice. Some are just a natural at the task of child rearing, and thrives – For some, not – feeling an enormous test of patience where personal carefree freedom is virtually … gone or have gone too may extra miles to meet the needs of others before their own. But, is it really a sacrifice to have the opportunity to learn and grow with a child? From the bottom of the heart, giving without reservations … that unconditional love. To be fully engaged and …PRESENT. Takes a lot of … energy where routine recharging can only benefit.

Reminded of the Q & A session after his talk Friday night on graceful aging (happening everyday from the day you were born) and how yoga helps – Baxter Bell MD & Yoga Teacher was asked this – what kind of yoga would help boost the immune system? The yogi doctor answered, yoga helps strengthen the muscles, improve balance, and agility. Then he went on to say that for strengthening the immune system, he would prescribe a regular restorative yoga practice – why, of course. It behooves us to try different styles of yoga … mix and match. Find what suits you for the condition you are in.

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Covering for each other – it’s sisterhood:)

Lovely Nancy C. will be subbing Sunday …This yogini to me is a goddess of a being and I am so happy she’s covering for me because
then I know, students are so well taken cared for. I don’t even need to come back, lol. Thank you Nancy.

Sooooo excited as I will be in the Yoga Therapy 500/800 hrs. immersion weekend with Baxter Bell MD …again, have read articles written by him but to get to directly study under him? I am all smiles. The focus? Muscles … the theme for the entire weekend is … MUSCLES. Yes, we learned about them in 200 hrs. basic teacher
training way back when but … never cared much for memorizing those sometimes unpronounceable names. Maybe I was brought up to think that’s more the male domain and not feminine (my mother was quite old fashion aka typical Japanese mom from that era – opting more for just walking, singing and clipping flowers for Ikebana – flower arrangement…having muscles would be so … unlady-like in her opinion- way back when thinking of yesteryears ) but ladies need the muscles – maybe not trying to be a “buffed” hulk (ugh…again – not my idea of aesthetics yet admire the effort … ) but just to feel strong and be strong.

I never really cared much for anatomy either (that’s the irony & why I love Judith’s teachings that’s so vast she can zoom in and zoom out :), never wanted to study it when in school, opting more for the non-science … but now … I find anatomy fascinating.
Our body is so mysterious and interesting to learn about.
I guess you never think or notice your body until something goes wrong with it. Then you really notice what you had taken for granted.
All our experiences are possible because we have this precious … body. AND Mind – they go hand in hand, closely connected of course. It does not need to be “whipped into” shape; but cared for like a parent caring for her/his child –
Kindness = Strength for these tissues made up from trillions of cells that constantly cycles through rebirth.
Muscles – sitting at a desk all day, they do get stiff and weaken, don’t they? Yoga to counter that deterioration As I make time for 10,000 steps … and evening yin yoga stretches. High maintenance? Isn’t it worth it? Aren’t you worth it?

IMG_9979_smallThe Original Flagship Lululemon Store … rather funky a bit caught in the 60’s kind San Francisco-ish – I was not there but – feel of a throwback place but told they will be moving to a larger place – going to be larger and modern… a little sad.
IMG_9982_smallIMG_0078_smallThis is a restorative class … Canadian take on a restorative class seems a bit different. A bit of a therapeutic session taught by a Sports Medicine guy. Restorative is restorative in many ways. Here it’s sports medicine-ish by a young father chatting about his wife, his son, what he ate, on and on, etc. so so different. Maybe guys have a different take on this practice – I don’t know – BUT it’s all good.