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Not knowing…

“Music comes closest to meditation. Music is a way towards meditation and the most beautiful way. Meditation is the art of hearing the soundless sound, the art of hearing the music of silence – what the Zen people call the sound of one hand clapping. When you are utterly silent, not a single thought passes your mind, there is not even a ripple of any feeling in your heart, then you start, for the first time, hearing silence.

“Silence has a music of its own. It is not dead, it is very much alive, it is tremendously alive. In fact, nothing is more alive than silence. Music helps you from the outside to fall in tune with the inner.”

-Osho

This depends on the kind of music I think… When I was still in my teens, I was at some Japanese family’s home where a beautiful music was being played. When I asked about it, this uncle like family friend replied that the singer is a “Greek Diva named Nana Mouskouri” to which I said, “wow, Ojisama, I didn’t know you knew Greek!”
To which he laughed, “K-chan, don’t you know that Japanese people just listen to whatever music that sounds beautiful, we don’t understand the foreign language – I don’t know a word she’s singing in Greek at all and we don’t necessarily care about the lyrics as long as it sounds good.”

Since then, maybe because I couldn’t make it out either, unless in Japanese (due to Karaoke, lyrics are shown on screens), I would be listening to music without paying much attention to the lyrics – it was mumbo jumbo as far as I was concerned – if I just like the beat, melody, harmony, and/or the rhythm – whatever, I just liked it – but never really listening to the words, never questioning. Either as my language skills improved along with my hearing, I could not help but start to hear the words and know the meaning, the message of the songs. At that point – I was mortified as to what I was listening to. I had some songs I loved listening to but once I really paid attention and consciously listened to the meaning of the words, I realized the words being uttered – once I really actually listened, I realized it was about domestic violence or just violence – crazy – then lots of broken hearts – I was listening to such sad music without even having an awareness – Anyway, sometimes, ignorance may be a bliss. To not know could be better.
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Beautiful People

Tokyo Vignette

Here’s a little snapshot from mom’s physical therapy session. A-sensei is God sent according to her – a very patient physical therapist she is blessed with – as for me, the observer, I always learn a lot just watching him work on my mom and then another patient/student with entirely a different set of problems – it’s a bit like yoga assists/adjustment but very labor-intensive… realizing each time, what a tough job it is. To get mobility back, it’s hard work. To regain fluid mobility, it’s a continual work with grace:)
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Lovely yoga teacher – felt she’s knowledgeable in both Japanese, of course and Ayurvedic based methods. Love her homepage – and much to my surprise, a book I picked out – on Ayurveda – total coincidence – so shocked as I turn the page on this book I picked out of few other choices – she’s the model in the book ! … What a coincidence – I did’t realize it’s her until I got back to US and had the time to really get into the book.
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31st floor and filled with LIGHT! Lovely class she leads – oldest student is 85! So refreshing to be in a yoga class where not once did we go into down-dog. At the end, feeling so light and free – different paths on a journey to get to the same place. Need not always have a down-dog to be more than 100% satisfied, is a lesson learned in her class.
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Realizing what I need at a street corner … almost walked in but…no time.
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Dreamy…sigh…
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reflexology – here too – or should I say, comes from here.
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Indian Dinner in Tokyo

Oddly, despite all that eating I did in Tokyo, I actually lost weight which goes to show how healthy Japanese food is and how portion control is important. I ate Japanese food at every opportunity – sushi, onabe, oden, etc. – at every meal except when my girlfriends took me to (at my request) a delicious Indian restaurant near Tokyo JR station. Indian food in Tokyo is very good and when I told the chef that I was from Silicon Valley and thought his food was better than the Silicon Valley Indian food, he was beaming – and it wasn’t a flattery – it was true. The flavors were delicate and well spiced…(but portions small – the Japanese standard). I am always so impressed with Japanese baked goods and here at Indian eatery as well. Best Nan and dosa…

Last to leave being last to get seated… late dinner is not my thing but:) making exceptions…chefs are waiters are cleaning up so … a hint that it’s time to go.
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authentic chai with shared sweets… petit sizes…
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The place was packed and could not get a reservation until 8:30pm… Here’s the link to the restaurant site – menu in English as well … Click the restaurant name: Dhaba India
Or you can have breakfast, lunch and dinner – all Japanese, everyday:) but so much variety in mega-city, that is, Tokyo:)

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Ganesha greeted us! Felt at home – weird isn’t it? A Japanese coming back from America, at Indian restaurant in hometown, Tokyo and feeling at home?

In case you were beginning to wonder…

“I’m not so weird to me.”

― Haruki Murakami, The Wind-Up Bird Chronicle