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Lymphatic care through yoga…

In Tokyo, when I took couple of yoga classes, lymphatic care was always mentioned … at least with this one teacher – Taeko Kubota. She starts out referencing this important system that runs a network of drainage system throughout our body. Her class tends to be a gentle class, rather refreshing for a visitor like me, as not once does she get us into a down-dog … and at the end in savasana, she will make the rounds to give a very tender adjustment that works just right. It’s not quite an adjustment … it’s more a effervescent touch – sometimes shiatsu-ish, sometimes reiki-ish – probably depending on the student’s observed condition. Realizing that she holds mommy-&-me baby massage classes, she just knows how to transmit that gentle care through the use of touch… it’s lovely. I love this teacher’s style and grace.

What a surprise that, out of pure coincidence, the Aryuvedic book I picked up at a Tokyo bookstore had her as a model:) As I flipped through the pages to find …I am thinking she looks so familiar and then – wait! Recognized her – and checked the name, yes, indeed, this is Taeko-sensei from whom I just took a class from last week! A surprise as I headed to the airport to come back to California. It is no wonder that her class is so sattvic. Gentle and soothing. At the end, you just feel lighter and good about yourself and the world we live in. Clear headed and yet floating on clouds. Haaah, sigh.

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How to’s? Hope to channel and transmit some of the techniques …very simple and yet effective.

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“Going Home”

This is a painting entitled “Going Home”, created by Amaey whose profile is described in Kids & Art Foundation. I purchased this painting at a fundraiser for Kids & Art few years ago. The moment when I saw it, I was drawn to it – my i-phone camera does not do justice to the vibrant splash and gloss of glistening colors. It seemed to capture this sadly beautiful “energy” you might call it a “wish” or a “desire” of a 7 year old boy who really really wanted to leave the hospital bed and the treatments behind and just be freed to go home! I don’t know if you can see but you see two little birds flying back home to the nest, when the whole sky turned to red/orange hue of brilliant colors imbued with golden threads of setting sun. Looking at it moved me because …not cured, not healed, he did not get to go home. Or did he?

IMG_0598_01the medium is not oil but tissue paper and temera paint that appears to be fading unfortunately…which compelled me to “save” the sparkle by covering with museum quality glass…

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The painting sat unframed for few years because when I first went to look for an appropriate frame, I just could not find a fitting one. Nothing worked; nothing was right – maybe I could not display it on a wall as then, it gave me a very heavy feeling. Finally – determined… I found a very simple frame and framed it few weeks ago. Now it hangs on the wall. At last. Now angelic light shines and reflects off the framing and … there’s a soft glow where the paining hangs.

Back then, it seemed so unreal that Amaey did not go to the physical home occupied by his mom and dad and his brother … but rather to a spiritual home up in the sky when he was nine years old. In 2011. Somehow I could not believe that someone so young and full of life and promise can just perish … and if I, such a third party felt this way, I cannot imagine how his family, those closest to him, so involved in the battle to beat cancer – how those closest to him felt about losing that fight to save him – it’s rather unreal.

Today,

the painting is now framed and whenever I look at it … I see the beauty of Amaey’s smile, his zest for life and his brave homecoming.

I will post the framed painting soon. This painting gives me strength and gratitude for the life we live. Amaey’s mom, Purvi Shah has kept the memory of her son alive by continuing to provide art therapy through Kids & Art Foundation. Their annual auction fundraiser just took place last month and Purvi again shared the organization’s mission to provide the support to those kids and affected family members. Art is therapeutic as is yoga. (Purvi is also a certified yoga instructor… a training she went through after Amaey’s death.)

How does one cope with grief of losing someone as precious as one’s own child? It would seem that there’s no greater challenge to overcome such grief for any mother. More the reason, I so respect someone who harnessed her anger and grief into supporting and helping others after going through the unthinkable – she took what’s very negative and terrifying to most parents and … turned it into something very positive… an earnest and sweet memorial for Amaey to celebrate his short life on earth and long eternal life in the cosmic universe. She comes from a place of empathy and deep love – with a conviction in her mission to serve. Amaey must be her guiding … light.

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Nourish & Nurture with TLC:)

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Dear First-Time Student,

I felt the immediate affinity towards you as you had on my alma mater school t-shirt and reminded me of those days when merely having the “will” was sufficient.

Yes, it’s all those blocks and the straps and the … bolsters and … blankets and as we forage and get them all set up, you were wondering if that heavy dread that’s overtaken your heart would lift. The weight of the sand bags reminds you how it feels when your lungs feel weighed down and constricted. Burdened. You pray that with “practice” the dread will dissipate and transform to joy. That feeling of trepidation you just cannot explain to those who never felt it. 

I know you will get well. You will feel better. Much much better. You will feel whole and strong, again soon. I come from a place of empathy for I was once fearless, adventurous and carefree – then lost it as it was my own doing to whittle away at my essence. Then I regained most back through slow hardware, software restoration. It has been a project virtually completed. But then, maintenance is a process, a work in progress, always. I regained the foothold once thought to be lost. And so can you.

As the cliche goes, there’s a light at the end of the tunnel… and that tunnel need not be all dark and mildew moldy smelling. Nor laden with artificial glitters. That tunnel can be paved with ethereal glow in the dark flowers, lovely candles and divine scents fit for royalty. Perhaps even some music on the way and if Wifi is blocked, I have got THE chant that eradicates those toxic thoughts. I know – some experience considered to be heavenly bliss, to you now feels like … hell. Rather than exhaling with release and relief, you feel as though you are dragged over hot coals. Your nerves are all fired up so revved, you are wondering how you are going to sit still since you are having trouble breathing … either fighting that heavy feelings and if all that fighting fails, you are ready to take the flight and so… that’s the door that’s always kept a little ajar so soundlessly one can make the exit with grace. Fight or flight, it’s okay. I understand that urge to flee. Be assured though, this too will pass. You showed up and that’s enough for now. You will heal. You have it in you.

I have to go for now to get things done… our perennial theme – But quickie in a nutshell – It’s like a reset button we press to get back on track … Our body has the innate instinctive coding to heal – it has the wisdom and intelligence to know just what will allow us to shine again, in that brilliance we had as a child when we had little to no fear. Fear is good; it allows survival. But beyond survival, we need not fear – we want self-assurance, confidence and … courage. To live in joy. How ? Stop beating ourselves up and start treating our body with more kindness… with compassion. With respect it deserves. It helps to know what you need to do to take care of yourself … and sometimes that would be to …let it be and allow the body back to homeostasis.

We just have to get out of the way.

Please take care – you will get well and the barometer of knowing is when you are able to show up again. You had the courage to show up once and that is enough for now.

Thank you for showing up. That’s a milestone.

Love & Peace,
Your Yoga Teacher

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