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Yin – Yang Hot Pot?

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We were on a looong line to get a bowl of ramen last week. It’s so weird that ramen has become so popular here but then maybe it’s not so weird. After all it’s really savory hot soup laden with al dente noodles topped with what have you. The line of ramen aficionados formed before the opening of lunch and because we were stuck in this line, I could not help but overhear this guy talking to his co-workers.

HE: There’s this little Japanese restaurant with no name or at least no sign, and there’s no menu. You just go there and you eat whatever the chef provides for you. It’s kind of like going to a friend’s home or something but really special.

continues:

HE: there’s a really long line and long wait just like this even though there’s no ad. And people who eat there don’t want the word to get out so they keep it under wraps – They can’t afford to get the line any longer since it’s a pretty small hole in the wall kind of place. Yeah, it’s kind of tucked away, a secret among those in the know. You’d have to have someone take you to find the place.

His co-workers, his team, all looked at him with anticipation, “so was the food phenomenal?!”

HIM: It’s just home cooked Japanese food… like what your Japanese mama might cook – little plates of comfort food that’s actually hard to come by in regular Americanized Japanese restaurant.

Of course, all his friends (including me, the eavesdropper) wanted to know where this hideaway of a place, a place where … there’s no sign out, maybe no name, no particular way of knowing about this restaurant … and …no menu.

SOOOO intrigued…

I REALLY WANT TO GO TO THIS PLACE! (unfortunately he did not share the address during the long wait for this popular ramen shop to open…

IMG_2113_01but instead making my own root veggie tempura
IMG_2119_01lotus roots…yes, I made them.

Hearing that guy talk about this secret restaurant with obvious pride made me realize that I sort of wish for my yoga class to be the same … it’s a meeting of the minds (foodies for savory soul-food “ramen”, vis-a-vis yogis for mindful soul-full yoga…), a sanctuary, a refuge, hardware/software restoration station and best of all … not advertised or commercialized at all – and yet, somehow people who know, show up. It’s almost fateful. Naturally, its inclusive, not exclusive as anyone who show up are each welcomed. People sharing kindred spirit creating that special energy of … gratitude, abundance and … all around goodness that’s nourishing for the body and mind as well as for the soul. All negativity, toxicity off the mat, out of the sacred space in which there’s an alter where you bring your offering to … honor yourselves. Wouldn’t that be beautiful? Okay … it’s an utopia.

IMG_9693_smallA single rose named “Precious Moment” in Tokyo, summer 2015.

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Beautiful Rituals Healthy Living

Tonight’s Lesson …

“Everything we do is infused with the energy with which we do it. If we’re frantic, life will be frantic. If we’re peaceful, life will be peaceful. And so our goal in any situation becomes inner peace.”

― Marianne Williamson

And this…

“Love is what we are born with. Fear is what we learn. The spiritual journey is the unlearning of fear and prejudices and the acceptance of love back in our hearts. Love is the essential reality and our purpose on earth. To be consciously aware of it, to experience love in ourselves and others, is the meaning of life. Meaning does not lie in things. Meaning lies in us.”

IMG_9662_smallA gallery at St. Lukes Hospital, Tokyo.

“According to ancient Asian philosophy, life is not a circle but a spiral. Every life lesson that has ever been presented to you (which means everything you have ever been through) will come back again, in some form, until you learn it. And the stakes each time will be higher. Whatever you’ve learned will bear greater fruit. Whatever you’ve failed to learn will bear harsher consequences. Whatever didn’t work in your life before this point was a reflection of the fact that you hadn’t yet integrated the different parts of yourself. Where you didn’t yet accept yourself, you attracted a lack of acceptance in others. Where you hadn’t yet dealt with your shadows, you manifested shadowy situations. Broken parts of you encountered broken parts of others. So now you know! That was then and this is now.”

― Marianne Williamson, A Year of Miracles: Daily Devotions and Reflections
IMG_9661_smallCalligraphy sign by Dr. Shigeaki Hinohara, age 104 and still making the rounds to meet and greet patients at St. Lukes hospital, Tokyo. My grandparents long gone were under his care at one time – he’s often asked what is the secret to his longevity… His answer may surprise you.

Age is not a number designation of years lived; age is … read on.

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Okay, okay, so I do see some value in FACEBOOK but ever since someone told me there’s a research that shows our happiness level actually decreased over time with use of facebook, I try not to spend much time on it … I rather see our happiness level go up – don’t you ?

Sometimes I do look at it and that makes me feel obligated to “like” which eats up my time I am trying so hard to treasure. My family tends to be pretty private and my cousins expressly said – no thank you … so … Maybe it’s a generational thing and more for “young” social people – but the the average user of FB is apparently in the 40’s. Okay, 40’s is young nowadays… 20’s and 30’s are into Instagram and tweets so there’s little to write and it’s all photos to garner attention… facebook without sentences, basically. Blogging is probably pretty passe now but still enjoy reading some really good ones out there.

While the test subjects were young adults in this research, I tend to believe that for most, use of facebook probably does undermines general happiness level unless used wisely. See this. The time on facebook checking what others are up to and figuring out how to present or express yourself on facebook basically is a waste of time to a degree.

Using it for publicizing – marketing/PR purpose and for gathering information or obtaining updated news is helpful and FB can serve as a valuable resource at times – I do enjoy the photography skills of some posts – so well done:) I do love photos and call out of events because …otherwise, I would have totally missed them. But other than that … knowing facebook usage is associated with increasing dissatisfaction and unhappiness, I use it sparingly.

By the way, I am happy that this couple is putting their resource, quite a fortune amassed from a company that produces or creates absolutely nothing but had a great impact “connecting” the dots (that’s Steven Jobs) or connecting people – to the right place. Happy for them that finally, finally …seems she’s able to carry the baby to term.