{"id":17808,"date":"2017-05-17T11:40:12","date_gmt":"2017-05-17T18:40:12","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/wagayoga.com\/blog\/?p=17808"},"modified":"2017-05-20T10:47:00","modified_gmt":"2017-05-20T17:47:00","slug":"right-on","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/wagayoga.com\/blog\/healthy-living\/right-on\/","title":{"rendered":"Right On"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>   ***     <strong>Elegance<\/strong>    ***<\/p>\n<p>It is not easy<br \/>\nto stop thinking ill of others.<br \/>\nUsually one must enter into a<br \/>\nfriendship with a person who has<br \/>\naccomplished this great feat<br \/>\nHimself.<br \/>\nThen something might start to<br \/>\nrub off on you<br \/>\nOf that<br \/>\nTrue Elegance<\/p>\n<p><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>So interesting when I opened my emails this morning, I had one from UC Berkeley&#8217;s <a href=\"http:\/\/greatergood.berkeley.edu\/\">The Greater Good Science Center<\/a>, with a title &#8220;How to Handle a Toxic Relationship&#8221;.  We all know toxins in our environment and foods can cause inflammations and compromise our immune system &#8230; what about other kinds of toxins ?<\/p>\n<p>In pursuit of a being who has no ill will within, to be that truly &#8220;elegant&#8221; breathing creature that Hafiz refers to, that I emulate.  I use forgetfulness as a way to cope OR<br \/>\nmy other usual tactic is &#8230; avoidance.  But is that truly healing?  Is that truly the way to handle toxic people?<br \/>\n<img loading=\"lazy\" src=\"http:\/\/wagayoga.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/img_6628.jpg\" alt=\"img_6628.jpg\" width=\"2048\" height=\"1536\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-16238\" srcset=\"https:\/\/wagayoga.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/img_6628.jpg 2048w, https:\/\/wagayoga.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/img_6628-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/wagayoga.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/img_6628-768x576.jpg 768w, https:\/\/wagayoga.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/img_6628-1024x768.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/wagayoga.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/img_6628-400x300.jpg 400w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 2048px) 100vw, 2048px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>A lot of people are into spring cleanse &#8211; juicing green smoothies, eating only organics, banning red meat, etc. etc. and it&#8217;s also an excellent time to identify ALL toxins in your life &#8211; it&#8217;s not just about eating organic foods, it&#8217;s not about restraints and discipline &#8211; it&#8217;s about evaluating relationships that can be toxic &#8211; Is it the boss that lacks respect?  Is it a so-called friend who gossips and spreads misleading rumors?  Is it an overly judgmental relative?  Is it the extremely critical peer with passive aggressive ways? Is it that one who criticizes like a NY Times Critic being paid to do it?  Is it that someone consumed by greed and ego who grew up feeling inadequate?  Is it that person who ate too much honey and &#8220;stuck&#8221; in a hole you tried pulling out many many times? Allow the independence, allow their insights, allow their intelligence and inner wisdom to guide them out of the hole &#8230;  trust.<\/p>\n<p>To stress resilience YES; but as you boost your resiliency, why not just let them go, let the toxins wash away and make room for the kind, thoughtful, confident, brave and very human people you admire to be in the circle of joy with.  Relationship is not a &#8220;project&#8221; &#8211; series of them make up our life &#8211; it&#8217;s about life.  Being aware that there are ups and the downs and all in-between, we help dislodge the toxins around and in us<\/p>\n<p>Through yoga.<\/p>\n<p>Thus ensuring our health.<\/p>\n<p>*** Green Smoothie ***<\/p>\n<p>(serves about 2-or-so:)<\/p>\n<p>1 organic apple &#8211; pref. green**<br \/>\nFew organic green grapes with skin on if available<br \/>\n5-8 Kale leaves (or spinach &#038; other deep green leaves)<br \/>\n1 T organic spirulina<br \/>\n1 C + organic coconut water OR<br \/>\nhemp milk OR almond milk &#8211; any clear or white liquid of goodness<br \/>\n1 banana pref. frozen<br \/>\nOrganic Raw Local Honey to Sweeten if needed:)<\/p>\n<p>Enjoy &#8211; Fill up with all good nutrients; eliminate what does not nourish you.  Motto of the Day?<br \/>\nThat&#8217;s the REAL cleanse.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>*** Elegance *** It is not easy to stop thinking ill of others. Usually one must enter into a friendship with a person who has accomplished this great feat Himself. Then something might start to rub off on you Of that True Elegance So interesting when I opened my emails this morning, I had one [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"spay_email":""},"categories":[10,9,8],"tags":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/wagayoga.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17808"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/wagayoga.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/wagayoga.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wagayoga.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wagayoga.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=17808"}],"version-history":[{"count":18,"href":"https:\/\/wagayoga.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17808\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":17831,"href":"https:\/\/wagayoga.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17808\/revisions\/17831"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/wagayoga.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=17808"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wagayoga.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=17808"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wagayoga.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=17808"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}