{"id":4744,"date":"2014-10-01T19:52:51","date_gmt":"2014-10-02T02:52:51","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/wagayoga.com\/blog\/?p=4744"},"modified":"2014-10-12T21:13:59","modified_gmt":"2014-10-13T04:13:59","slug":"4744","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/wagayoga.com\/blog\/uncategorized\/4744\/","title":{"rendered":""},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Last Sunday class was rather cozy but the week before, a bit of a full house,  just few hours after stepping off the plane, feeling so light headed &#8211; my head was swirling and whirling with the celestial stars twirling and flickering (i.e., jet lag and severe sleep deprivation &#8211; admittedly I was a space-case&#8230; blurted Japanese word for Knee and Lower Back instead of English as I seemed to have forgotten certain anatomical words I thought was pounded and tattooed onto my brains&#8230;).  That particular evening, in my hazy consciousness, nevertheless, I observed many pairings:  mothers with daughters, girlfriends, boyfriends &#8230; friends &#8230; and I just want to say, I love that.  Once during a class at a sports club I teach, there was a couple who set up their mats side by side, and when they folded into sleeping pigeons (or sleeping swans&#8230;), they held hands&#8230; not with passion but with tenderness&#8230; his hand over her&#8217;s as to console&#8230; and that sight was sooooo sweet to behold, I felt like taking out a handkerchief and making it a Kodak moment.  I just so love it when there&#8217;s that kind of connection or at least an effort to use the medium of yoga as a place to deepen, strengthen or rediscover a relationship.  <\/p>\n<p>Life&#8217;s about relationships and experiences, good and bad &#8211; the vast huge range &#8230; ask anyone about to take his last breath &#8230; isn&#8217;t it so?  If only there was an answer&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>My attempts at match-making in the past have not been successful due in part by the fact that I was caught up with things ruled by &#8230; ego &#8230; and now that I am making a concerted effort to relinquish ego and come from a place of &#8230; love and concern, I would love it if the space we create together made our hearts less hard, more inter-woven as we breathe together.  If ever we could see a budding of a relationship or a stronger bond as a result of a duo-practice, I would be so so honored to bear witness.  IT would make my heart melt&#8230; ah, yes, it would.<\/p>\n<p>While when I go to practice my own yoga, it&#8217;s more about me-time; my solace and private meditative solo TLC of self time, as I look around, I cannot understand why yoga is practiced primarily by women. The studio is maybe 90% women to 10% rest ratio&#8230; why is that?  Are men thinking they are too macho to be doing yoga &#8211; is yoga for women???<\/p>\n<p>Check out:<\/p>\n<p>Baron Baptise<br \/>\nRod Stryker<br \/>\nRoger Cole<br \/>\nJason Crandell<br \/>\nChaudrey Bikram<br \/>\nRodney Yee<\/p>\n<p>&#8230; then there are Gurus like Krishna Pattabhi Jois and BKS Iyengar&#8230;masters no longer alive but lives in the hearts of many teachers today.<br \/>\nso<\/p>\n<p>we all know yoga is for both men and women&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>And also &#8230; If I were a guy looking for my Muse and not finding any at work or school or &#8230; where do people meet these days?  Online? Anyway, I highly recommend going to a  local yoga studio for realness&#8230; there, you will find girls who care about not only their body, but their mind.  Girls, who care about wellness and health &#8211; warm, compassionate and caring.  Used to be that people went to church to meetup and while that&#8217;s still nice, why not your yoga class?  Such thought crossed my mind when I saw the lovebirds warm each other&#8217;s hands&#8230; Haahhhh, a big sigh &#8230; <\/p>\n<p>Someone who saw me might have seen a smile like a Cheshire Cat&#8230; I guess I will get into trouble with the Guruji for even uttering such an idea instead of just training&#8230; BUT MC Yogi met Amanda (a beautiful couple), his Muse at a yoga studio, introduced by the instructor, late Larry Shultz, so I have heard &#8230; so see, it&#8217;s real. It happens.  It changes your life.  IT = yoga, yes.<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>Oh, you can&#8217;t help that,&#8217; said the cat. &#8216;We&#8217;re all mad here.\u201d<br \/>\n\u2015 Lewis Carroll, Alice in Wonderland<\/p><\/blockquote>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Last Sunday class was rather cozy but the week before, a bit of a full house, just few hours after stepping off the plane, feeling so light headed &#8211; my head was swirling and whirling with the celestial stars twirling and flickering (i.e., jet lag and severe sleep deprivation &#8211; admittedly I was a space-case&#8230; [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"spay_email":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/wagayoga.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4744"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/wagayoga.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/wagayoga.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/wagayoga.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/wagayoga.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=4744"}],"version-history":[{"count":12,"href":"http:\/\/wagayoga.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4744\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":4957,"href":"http:\/\/wagayoga.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4744\/revisions\/4957"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/wagayoga.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=4744"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/wagayoga.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=4744"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/wagayoga.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=4744"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}