{"id":28980,"date":"2021-08-29T11:32:20","date_gmt":"2021-08-29T18:32:20","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/wagayoga.com\/blog\/?p=28980"},"modified":"2021-08-29T15:00:20","modified_gmt":"2021-08-29T22:00:20","slug":"over-familiarity-breeds","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/wagayoga.com\/blog\/beautiful-deeds\/over-familiarity-breeds\/","title":{"rendered":"&#8220;Over familiarity breeds&#8221;"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><strong>&#8220;CONTEMPT.&#8221;<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Once again my mom again &#8230; and a little piece of her wisdom living through the horrific and boom times &#8211; the highs and the lows&#8230;and sadly at the twilight phase of life phase, this time is the lowest imaginable &#8211; not able to see her family and kin she worked so hard all her life to protect and preserve.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Familiarity can give us that warm fuzzy feel &#8230; one of peace of mind and comfort BUT what is OVER-Familiarity?  Situations when someone does not keep the bountries of common sense and common courtesy. Perhaps when one does not respect the feelings of others and uses the relationship as a dumping ground of one&#8217;s garbage in negative observations and unnecssary information sharing that furthers everything but the feel-good sense of community.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>We<strong> hold space<\/strong> for those we care about, always respecting and valuing our personal boundaries.  Boundaries of Chi- the life force &#8211; the vital energy are sacred to each living creature.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>When we think about over-familiarity, we think also about the term and concept of &#8220;holding space&#8221;.  What does it mean to &#8220;HOLD SPACE&#8221;?  And why is &#8220;holding space&#8221; for a friend and family members such a valued gesture of care more than ever during this time of collective strain and agitation?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>More on this &#8230; <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&#8220;CONTEMPT.&#8221; Once again my mom again &#8230; and a little piece of her wisdom living through the horrific and boom times &#8211; the highs and the lows&#8230;and sadly at the twilight phase of life phase, this time is the lowest imaginable &#8211; not able to see her family and kin she worked so hard all [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"spay_email":""},"categories":[5],"tags":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/wagayoga.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/28980"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/wagayoga.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/wagayoga.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/wagayoga.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/wagayoga.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=28980"}],"version-history":[{"count":8,"href":"http:\/\/wagayoga.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/28980\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":28989,"href":"http:\/\/wagayoga.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/28980\/revisions\/28989"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/wagayoga.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=28980"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/wagayoga.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=28980"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/wagayoga.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=28980"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}